Nell Bumgarner, 1898
I Cannot
There are stories I
wish to share with you
To convey the essence,
and feel, and charm
Of long-ago memories
that live within me.
To write is my desire,
yet I am hindered;
I have neither command
of words nor expression,
Nor power to say what I
would.
I lack the ability to
select and condense;
I prefer to write as
the snatches drift by.
I cannot tell you
what's in my heart – but I'll try.
Nell Yeager Bumgarner,
From Lucasville Lore
From
the first grunts of cavemen to the texts of Twitter, words remain
singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. But, words
often “fail us.” Who, like Nell Bumgarner, has not felt great
inadequacy to express themselves? Driven to communicate a memory or
an idea, people often feel the lack the linguistic sophistication to
produce a memorable bit of speech or writing. Yet, Nell understood
that the effort of sharing a heartfelt expression is the overriding
exertion that produces meaningful stories.
When
people become comfortable enough to express their stories, their “one
of a kind” bits of remembrance add to a meaningful diversity of
style and voice. The particular voice they employ carries their own
experience and unique personality. It is the author's duty not only
to remain true to his or her own voice (the inside world), but also
to maintain a veracity of his or her words to the audience (the
outside world).
“Trying”
to communicate is usually achieved successfully when a person follows
a
blend of conscious activity – reacting to stimuli through focused
ideas – and unconscious activity – registering information and
forming associations from sensory memory. Tapping into both the
conscious and unconscious processes are treasure-hunting expeditions
for speakers and writers. Fluency inevitably develops as people
discover the freedom of setting out on this journey of discovery.
“What
The Subconscious is to every other man, in its creative aspect
becomes, for writers, The Muse.”
– Ray
Bradbury
“The conscious and
unconscious minds have integrated social messages about
appropriateness, safety, and quality of craftsmanship. If the
conscious mind is allowed too much control, especially in the early
stages of a project, a writer's work suffers. Images are not
specific, metaphors become cliched or superficial, emotional truths
and hard realities are avoided, and the work fails to live up to its
potential.”
(Kate Arms-Roberts.
“Writing at the Speed of the Unconscious.”
www.creativitypost.com. September 13, 2013)
The story is the vehicle
that transports the reader across borders of time, space, and
imagination. Humans may not understand logic; however, they are
ideally programmed to understand stories. From the beginning of life,
stories are a fundamental unit of knowledge. As a foundation of
memory, they are essential to the way humans make sense of their
lives. Who, as a child, begged adults over and over for a story? All
of us.
Storytelling also involves
great listening skills. Listening is very powerful creative force in
itself. American psychiatrist Karl Menninger explains: “The friends
who listen to us are the ones we move toward, and we want to sit in
their radius. When we are listened to, it creates us, makes us unfold
and expand.” A story stimulates the imagination while engaging the
listener's sense-making faculties – in short, it bonds those who
participate in the activity.
“‘History’
is mostly ‘story.’”
– Ken
Burns, whose 19 films have garnered him a Guggenheim Fellowship,
three Peabody Awards and four Emmy Awards
It has been reported that
personal stories and gossip make up 65% of our conversations. It it
any wonder that an effective communication of history involves such
accounts? American filmmaker Ken Burns understands the power of the
personal story. Burns – The Civil War,
Baseball, The National Parks, The Vietnam War
– explains: “The elements of storytelling are always the same.
You’re just drawn to a good story, whether a small one or a big
one.” The point, Burns says, is that every story has characters –
it’s just a matter of letting them breathe and tell their stories.
The people of Lucasville,
Ohio, know Nell Yeager Bumgarner was a jewel of a storyteller who
shared her writing and her conversations with so many folks for so
many years. She left a historical record of great importance by
simply overcoming any perceived hindrances of communicating her
wonderful stories. In her own words, Nell “tried” to tell others
what was in her heart. And, it was what was in her heart that
mattered … and still matters.
This Bicentennial year a
wonderful tribute to Nell Bumgarner and others like her who worked
tirelessly to preserve Lucasville history would be for each of us to
“try” to share a story … a story that could be saved and reread
again and again. No one lacks the ability or the command to do this.
We may convince ourselves that we aren't capable of doing this, but
we all have our stories, narratives that others long to hear.
I am making a call for
your contributions. No story is too small or insignificant to write.
I hope you decide to do this – simply write your story and share it
with the Lucasville Area Historical Society or with myself. Here is
the address of the Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/LucasvilleAreaHistoricalSociety/
My email is
frank.thompson51@yahoo.com.
I try to share my stories
with you in hopes of building community. I so hope you will share one
(or more) of yours with the historical society.
“God
made man because He loves stories.”
– Elie
Wiesel, author and Nobel Peace Prize winner