Nell and Guy
The ability to communicate what is important to us. Doesn't everyone feel that desire? We have important ideas to share, yet we often struggle to write or say exactly what we feel. Sometimes our problems with expression frustrate us so much that we give up without writing or saying a single word. But, what if we accept our personal limitations and try. I knew a lady who took on that task, and it made all the difference.
I Cannot
There are stories I wish to share
with you
To convey the essence, and feel, and
charm
Of long-ago memories that live
within me.
To write is my desire, yet I am
hindered;
I have neither command of words nor
expression,
Nor power to say what I would.
I lack the ability to select and
condense;
I prefer to write as the snatches
drift by.
I cannot tell you what's in my heart
– but I'll try.
--Nell Bumgarner
Nell Yeager Bumgarner (1895-1994) was a
local treasure. A writer, a poet, a nature lover, and a rather
eccentric human being, Nell was a true Lucasvillian. She was a
meticulous, learned woman who could spin tales of area lore so vivid
and detailed that you felt as if you were living her past while
reading her works or listening to her verbal renderings. And, did she
ever preserve local color and detail. Her gracious heart and sharp
mind graced our community for nearly 100 years.
Nell loved to write her memories and
memoirs on her “vintage, World War I era L.C. Smith typewriter.”
Her daughter, Laura Rachel (aka celebrated actress Laurie Franks)
compiled many of Nell's stories, poems, and sayings. To commemorate
her mother's life, Laura Rachel presented the finished product to
her mother on the occasion of Nell's ninety-ninth birthday – a
book Laura Rachel appropriately titled Lucasville Lore. The
book contains page after page of what Nell referred to as “memories
grabbed out of a handful of mist.”
Nell
Bumgarner was born in Lucasville, Ohio, on September 9, 1895. She was
the sixth child of Civil War veteran, Benjamin Yeager, Fife Major and
Principle Musician of Company H. First Ohio Volunteer Heavy
Artillery, Union Army. Yeager entered service at age fifteen and
married Nellie's mother, Rachel Jane Brant, when he was twenty-six
and she was nineteen.
Nellie
– her childhood name – wrote for the Lucasville Rural
Gazette during her high school
years, then was stenographer for Bannon And Bannon, attorneys in
Portsmouth, Ohio. Later, she clerked, took dictation, and kept books
at the Joseph H. Brant Store in Lucasville until her marriage to Guy
Bumgarner in 1928. Guy was a teacher, a mentor of Roy Rogers, King of
the Cowboys. In 1953, Guy was a surprise guest on the popular TV show
“This Is Your Life” honoring Roy.
Guy
died in January 1976, and after that great loss, Nell began to
compose many memoirs, writing recollections in earnest at the age of
ninety. (Let that be a lesson, in itself, of the importance of
industry at any age.) She spoke of her greatest hope: “Before I go,
I have something to say.” That “something” was bountiful beyond
measure.
I had the good
fortune to visit Nell one day as she held court in her Lucasville
home. Hours passed like minutes as she weaved her stories, each a gem
in the strand of her life. She spoke with the authentic voice of a
sage, and I tried to absorb every word, even the dollops of
digressions and occasional repetitions. Sitting there, somehow I knew
I was receiving a precious gift from the heart and mind of a very
special soul. I began to understood why Nell wanted to share her life
with me and with others. She cared … about people, about history,
and about community. Nell revered her life on earth. As I went home
after my visit, I knew Nell Bumgarner's legacy would live on long
after her demise.
Nell
revealed her purpose in the Foreword to Lucasville Lore.
Read these words to that prayer
she composed in her nineties …
“Lord, Father,
help me to write. In the long hours before sleep or that follow
sudden awakening, sometimes toward morning, my old mind is so crowded
with stories, perhaps some worth preserving, from age three on into
my nineties.
“I yearn to
write of Old Lucasville and its dusty streets, the condensation of
many dusty, early roads that led into and out of it; of remembered
stories of people I've known and loved through the years; of precious
scenes that can never be relived except by means of the inadequate
pen. A title comes to mind, then a scrambled bit, frustrating me at
the idea of recording them. Will you, Father, please bless and help
me in any worthwhile efforts my lazy mind and hand put forth? Please
help me overcome the inhibitions and faults I struggle with, and
guide me. Keep me mindful of Mildred's three gates: Is it true? Is it
needful? Is it kind?
“Father, you
have given me a life so full of beautiful and interesting things to
write about and have blessed me with opportunities to absorb from
unusual and capable others some of the tools that could make it
possible. I am so very grateful for everything and everyone you have
given me. Truly, my cup runneth over. Thank you always.”
The prayer is
emblematic of Nell – seemingly fragile yet incredibly
substantial, a person of grateful compassion and strong faith. Her
mention of “Mildred's gates” is likely a reference to a poem by
Beth Day.
If you are tempted to reveal
A tale to you someone has told
About another, make it pass,
Before you speak, three gates of gold;
These narrow gates. First, “Is it true?”
Then, “Is it needful?” In your mind
Give truthful answer. And the next
Is last and narrowest, “Is it kind?”
And if to reach your lips at last
It passes through these gateways three,
Then you may tell the tale, nor fear
What the result of speech may be.
by Beth Day 1855
Nell
Bumgarner's mindful observations serve us well. They are timely
reminders to her beloved Lucasville community of its eternal
obligation to others. True,
needful, and kind
– these words imprint the legacy of a wonderful pundit, a rare
keeper of local history. Thank God Nell's “cup” did run over, for
her “handful of memories” are inestimable gifts. It is my hope
the “Lucasville lore” comes to the mind of area residents. That
would make Nell very happy to know people still care about her
hometown. Allow me to close with Nell's observation of “Old
Lucasville ...
“My
memories of Lucasville form a dear and enthralling picture. Oh for an
artist's brush and an artist's touch by which to memorialize each
person, each scene – the myriad of experiences. Lucasville was the
loveliest place, I think, in all this world, to be born. Now at the
advanced age of ninety-two, as I review my life from birth to here
and now, thankful tears fill my eyes and prayer my lips.
“By
'Old Lucasville,” I mean to include the surrouding area. Because it
too, as comprehension grows, becomes part of life. The history of
Lucasville from my birth year (1895) until now (1988) is my history
too – and I am happy for it. Such a period it was that none can
ever be like it.”
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